A curious look at the harder parts of being human

Essays on emotional growth, relationships, repair, grief, identity, and the complicated work of being human.

When No One Wants to Hear You: On Ego, Growth, and Parenting Teenagers Through the Hard Years

When No One Wants to Hear You: On Ego, Growth, and Parenting Teenagers Through the Hard Years

Why don't people want to hear the truth? Often, it's not about the truth at all. It's about the ego — theirs, ours, and everything we're both protecting. A reflection on what gets in the way of being truly known, and what it costs us when we stop trying.

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Calm the Waters On the Inside: Strategies for Managing Anxiety
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Calm the Waters On the Inside: Strategies for Managing Anxiety

Anxiety is a common experience, often misunderstood and stigmatized. Our past experiences, particularly traumatic ones, shape our present thoughts, but by recognizing these patterns, we can regain control. Instead of viewing anxiety as a flaw, we can see it as a sign urging us to realign with our deeper values, and finally find a home inside ourselves.

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